Life is short. In the last 3 years I have been to more funerals than weddings. Sadly, we have said goodbye to my husband’s 3 remaining grandparents. Neighbour’s adult daughter (cancer). A friend, my age (cancer). My doctor (my age, cancer). My best friend from highschool who went from healthy to death in a matter of a few weeks (lupus). We said goodbye to my father in law the beginning of this year (cancer). His brother (my hubby’s uncle) only a year earlier. (cancer). A step cousin…accident on a jobsite. Numerous friends miscarried babies. A young student at our school was in a tragic cycling accident. It’s all terrible. Tragic. As I write, my only remaining grandparent (my grandma, Gigi) is in hospital, as her strength wanes and her memory fades.
And it makes me think. Everyone has a list of things they want to accomplish. What is it that keeps us from doing them? My friend Amee Gleave (founder of the Get Your Sparkle Back Foundation) asked a question tonight that made me think. She writes, “Are you waiting for permission to step into your greatness? Has your volume been turned down or even on mute in some areas of your life ??? It’s time to turn it UP !! The world is waiting for your magnificence. All you have to do is claim it.”
Are you waiting for permission to step into your greatness? This one hit me like a brick. If you’ve ever had an idea that you thought was awesome, but you weren’t sure if someone else might like it…..if you’ve ever NOT done something because you were afraid it might not be perfect or good enough…..if you’ve ever waited for the “pat on the back” to do something more, just to make sure what you did was good enough….you might be waiting for permission!! But WHY?!?! You are an adult. If you know that you know that you were put here to do something, I beg of you…..DO IT!! You do not need permission. The world is WAITING for it!
Has your volume been turned down? There are areas in my life that I kind of put on hold when I started having babies. 13 yrs later, some things have changed- but some have not, and it’s time for me to turn that volume back up again. The problem is, when you get used to not hearing it or not doing those things, sometimes it takes an intentional effort to bring those things back. One of the things I put on hold was music. It’s been a long time since I have identified myself as a musician- but it is definitely a part of my DNA….and without it, part of me is dead. It’s time to bring it back. There are other areas where I’ve stepped back- and it’s not always bad. But sometimes we get used to it, and it’s easy to stay in the most recent habit of not doing those things. I challenge you to reflect on your life, and think about those things that you have let slip. Maybe there was a valid reason. Maybe it was a dream you had that you have stopped dreaming because of something that did not go right. Perhaps it was something else. I don’t know. All I know is, everyone has things deep within them that they were gifted with. Some are obvious. Some are not. But I challenge you to try new things. And, try “old things.” Pick up the sports equipment. Lace up your running shoes. Sit in front of your piano. Pick up the the pen and start writing that novel. Take a leap of faith and start that new venture you’ve been thinking of. Call the publisher. Learn a new skill. Make a meal for that person in need and take it over. Volunteer. Go back to school. And for crying out loud…..pick up the phone and call that friend that you have not spoken to in years. Email is fine, but there is nothing like a phone call- or better yet, take half an hour and meet them for coffee. You never know what will happen.
So why are you waiting for permission? Whose permission do you need? Maybe, you need permission from yourself. Stop sabotaging your own success. You are incredible. You are enough- in fact, you are MORE than enough. Go and live out loud. Instead of silencing that small voice in your head, you need to shout it from the rooftops! Think about the people you know who are doing the things they are passionate about. They are unstoppable. They are magnetic. And they know that they know that they know that they don’t need to wait for anybody. What if the thing you are most afraid of is the thing that you are most excellent at doing? What if your success was guaranteed by doing it- and what if you were too afraid to ever try it? What’s the worst that could happen?? It might not be perfect- but that’s OK!! I think Nike had it right. Just Do It. Live Out Loud. Live a life of NO regrets. Permission: Granted. I cannot WAIT to see what you accomplish!!